Comments on: Uncentered http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/ Inspired Living Tools, Tips and Teachings Thu, 24 Jul 2008 04:09:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: landis http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-51757 landis Mon, 28 Jan 2008 08:07:39 +0000 http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-51757 So to make it all make sense... How do you deal with being off centered.. for THAT long.. (its ok to chuckle at me.. I was writing and hit submit .. trying after words to tie it all together..) So to make it all make sense… How do you deal with being off centered.. for THAT long..

(its ok to chuckle at me.. I was writing and hit submit .. trying after words to tie it all together..)

]]> By: landis http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-51756 landis Mon, 28 Jan 2008 08:05:03 +0000 http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-51756 So where do I begin on this one ... Its been more than a year since I've actually physically seen her but I can admit to myself now that emotions run extremely deep. I've tried to run from those feelings for a while and to her unknowing.. I've even avoided situations where I thought I might run into her. I don't know if I could handle that right now.. I know that is being a coward.... Also I guess the fear is that I would spill my heart the moment I was in an unavoidable situation with her.. only to find that yes.. she truly moved on would eat my heart out... I could'nt blame her because the way it ended.. I was putting up the front actiing like I was "mr macho handle himself don't need nobody"... Don't all guys do that..Where do we get that from?! In nutshell it ended badly.. for me.. No body wrote a manual and handed to me on stuff like this.. I guess this is were faith comes in. But what is faith if I keep running... At the time of the breakup I think we both were stubborn individuals - no body would budge from our idealistic mindsets.. Looking back at the year since then.. I did realize a lot about how I dealt with conflict.. I knew I had to change and I dramatically I did them because of the anger I realized certain things.. about how simple it would have been just to be more adaptable. I think its a matter of time before I either confront my fears or maybe this was the process I really needed to go thru in order to let her go.. ... Lets see where this goes ... All other relationships since then have obviously failed because of these lingering emotions... I don't want be unfair to others anymore. I thought that I could move on if I treated the next girl with even more love and affection and it would work. Its an individual thing. Maybe there actually is someone else there to teach me something new.. but how do I really close that chapter and reopen a new one if I'm still lingering on emotions like this.. So where do I begin on this one … Its been more than a year since I’ve actually physically seen her but I can admit to myself now that emotions run extremely deep. I’ve tried to run from those feelings for a while and to her unknowing.. I’ve even avoided situations where I thought I might run into her. I don’t know if I could handle that right now..
I know that is being a coward…. Also I guess the fear is that I would spill my heart the moment I was in an unavoidable situation with her.. only to find that yes.. she truly moved on would eat my heart out… I could’nt blame her because the way it ended.. I was putting up the front actiing like I was “mr macho handle himself don’t need nobody”…
Don’t all guys do that..Where do we get that from?!
In nutshell it ended badly.. for me.. No body wrote a manual and handed to me on stuff like this.. I guess this is were faith comes in. But what is faith if I keep running…
At the time of the breakup I think we both were stubborn individuals - no body would budge from our idealistic mindsets..
Looking back at the year since then.. I did realize a lot about how I dealt with conflict.. I knew I had to change and I dramatically I did them because of the anger I realized certain things.. about how simple it would have been just to be more adaptable.

I think its a matter of time before I either confront my fears or maybe this was the process I really needed to go thru in order to let her go..
… Lets see where this goes …
All other relationships since then have obviously failed because of these lingering emotions… I don’t want be unfair to others anymore. I thought that I could move on if I treated the next girl with even more love and affection and it would work.
Its an individual thing. Maybe there actually is someone else there to teach me something new.. but how do I really close that chapter and reopen a new one if I’m still lingering on emotions like this..

]]> By: Tshombe http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-32841 Tshombe Sat, 10 Nov 2007 06:46:17 +0000 http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-32841 Sounds to me, Nneka, that though you may be off-head-centered, you are very much "on" heart-centered, which is your inner place of knowing. I honor you for your allowing vulnerability, which is the location of your true place of strength. Sounds to me, Nneka, that though you may be off-head-centered, you are very much “on” heart-centered, which is your inner place of knowing. I honor you for your allowing vulnerability, which is the location of your true place of strength.

]]> By: Nneka http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-32177 Nneka Wed, 07 Nov 2007 13:19:12 +0000 http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-32177 Al, thanks for the Digg and the overall support :-) I really appreciate it. Al, thanks for the Digg and the overall support :-) I really appreciate it.

]]> By: Nneka http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-32176 Nneka Wed, 07 Nov 2007 13:18:32 +0000 http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/279-uncentered/#comment-32176 Pamir, you might just have it on the money. I had never allowed myself to totally fall. For about 18 months, my prayer has been to be a clear channel for God's expression. God is love and I have been revelling in it here and there, getting glimpses. Maybe this was a bigger dose :-) Pamir, you might just have it on the money. I had never allowed myself to totally fall. For about 18 months, my prayer has been to be a clear channel for God’s expression. God is love and I have been revelling in it here and there, getting glimpses. Maybe this was a bigger dose :-)

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