Craig Harper wrote a brilliant tough-love post on Learning to be Proactive not Reactive. I recognised my old self in the reactive descriptions, but thankfully am progressing more and more into the ‘choosing to do before I have to’ category….

@WR, no we do not need to know anything about an issue to not like it. That’s not my contention. My point is that we spend a lot of time and energy trying to postulate why we are at war (or whatever the angst is) when that time and energy is much better spent changing the things we CAN control and DO understand, like anger at a co-worker.

When you understand intolerance for your co-worker, you will get a peek at how someone can be intolerant of an entire race or segment of population. At that point, if you can be compassionate with yourself about it (not excuse your behavior), you can begin to lend some compassion to the person that blanketly hates you. When you begin to transform your intolerance, the hatred that is held for you (the segment of population) will begin to transform. This is the power of the Law of Attraction.

Thanks Ray and Hilda, it came from Spirit. Very risky and scary to write from that place.

In Spirit,
Nneka